Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Love

Love. Every girl wants it. Every guy tries to avoid it. What is love exactly? There are so many words and emotions you could use to describe it. But the truth is, you don't really know what it is until you've experienced it. It's not just something that comes and goes. Sometimes it stays with you forever, and sometimes it fades. But there is a difference between loving someone, and being in love with them. People often get them confused, and think they're in love with someone, but come to find out that they were wrong. How do you know when your in love? Your in love when you can't stop thinking about that person. You would die to be with them, and you would do anything for them. You can be yourself around them. You know that no matter what they'll always be there for you and your feelings toward them will never change. Love is so powerful and emotional. It's not something to tamper with. Because if you do, you'll get hurt, and end up with a broken heart. Love is strong, love is passionate, but most of all, love is never ending.

Sunday, January 9, 2011

Friends come and go, but a sister is forever.

I never realized what it was like to have a sister until recently. But now that I have one I really don't know what'd I'd do without her. I always thought having a sister would be terrible. But I was wrong.  Sisters make you laugh and they make you cry. They give you advice and help you through your toughest times. They tell you what you do wrong, but they don't judge. When you're confused sisters are there to explain things. When you're depressed they always put a smile on your face. And when you get your heart broken, they're always there ready to beat whoever did it. When you're around them you can't help but be happy. And when you decide to do something stupid, they'll be right behind you saying, "This'll be fun!" Sisters are like your best friend, but more. My sister is so special to me and I'm so thankful that she is in my life because honestly if she wasn't I would be very lost. A piece of me would be missing. So this is a shout out to all of you who have a sister or sisters. WE LOVE YOU!

Thursday, January 6, 2011

Boys Boys Boys!!!

Boys. If there were a list of things usually on a girls mind, boys would would be number one. We think about boys all the time. We can't help it, it's our nature. Every girl wants their "Knight in Shining Armor," the boy who tells them they're beautiful when we say we're not, holds us when we're sad, and kisses us even when his friends are looking. The kind of boy that makes us feel all fluttery inside when he looks at them. But does every girl get this ideal boy? Sadly no. See some boys are sneaky. Very sneaky. And they don't care if they hurt us because they only care for themselves. They tell us things, but don't mean it. They use us and then they move on to the the next unlucky victim because the are cruel. And yet some of us still fall for their infamous tricks. We think they'll change. We think they didn't mean to hurt us. We think that it was our fault when really the guy was just a pig. We blame ourselves because we're afraid. Afraid no one else will love us. But the truth is they never really loved us in the first place. See we can't live in fear. We can't let boys get the best of us. If we do they'll just continue to use us. So the next time you get your heart broken, remember that your not alone. There's lots of us going through the same situation. And don't let him keep you from finding someone else. Be self confident and strong. Because it's not the end of the world.

Monday, January 3, 2011

Being Perfect Is No Fun!

There are three different kinds of people in this world. At least thats the way I look at it. There are the people who judge, the people that  let other people judge them, and the very few people that are above all the judging and don't care if they're being talked about and don't talk about other people because it's really not worth it. We need more people like this. We could learn a lesson from them. Why let people push us around. The ones who judge other people are scared. They feel that by pointing out everyone's flaws no one will notice theirs. They thrive for perfection. It's like a high to them. Once they get hooked they can't get off of it and they hurt others in the process. The ones who let people judge them can't stand to be left out. They let people push them around because they thrive to be in the in crowd. They feel useless if they're not. And these people usually end up becoming like those who used to judge them. The ones that have minds of they're own and refuse to let people push them around are special. There arn't many people like them because it takes a lot of courage and passion to be this kind of person. They live their lives like they want to. They don't live up to anyone's expectations. They have much more fun in life and in the end are much happier. So my question to you is, which person are you going to be? Keep this in mind. Being perfect is no fun!